Posted by Admin on September 19, 2016
You can’t help someone who hasn’t asked for help… When you try you only set your Self up for disappointment, the intensity of which is directly proportionate to how much help you attempted to give someone without them asking for it.
The alternative is watching… which can also be disappointing if you are not careful. It is very easy to project expectations that are unreasonable and when not fulfilled – voila – disappointment!
Therefore, a good measure of your patience is how long can you wait and watch someone flounder without helping (interfering) until they Ask for help.
Because – – –
Not until someone asks for help will they be able to follow direction.